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OP 08 July, 2020 - 04:39 AM
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can someone explain this to me xd
backstory: I've been best friends w her since 9th grade and in 10th grade, I realized I had feelings for her when she told me bout her bf so since then till 11th grade, my feelings were buried. I asked her out in 11th grade, months after her breakup. she said she didn't feel the same. and like about a month ago she told me that she had feelings for me. but she had a pact that she wouldn't date till she's 18 because of her past experiences. we dated for like 2 days to see how things would go. and we've been texting like how people who date would text. but we're not dating. so we made a pact that if by the time she's 18 and we're still into each other we'd date. and so the way we text/talk (like people who date text/talk). back to last night. she texts me that. I just replied saying "I understand", when I don't actually understand what those texts actually mean. Help?
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08 July, 2020 - 04:39 AM
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Just say you understand, and that you have thinking to do too.
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08 July, 2020 - 04:42 AM
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Erm not sure if I am right, but what I got is that she doesn't want to date anymore. But maybe stay friends, that's why she said "i still luv you" ? She also obvouisly cares about you cus she apologises for making you wake up to those messages and also asks you tyo msg her when u see it.
saying "i understand" probably didnt help though...
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OP 08 July, 2020 - 04:48 AM
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(08 July, 2020 - 04:39 AM)MNQN Wrote: Show MoreJust say you understand, and that you have thinking to do too.
yeah no, i already told her i understand. i just need to know what the texts mean.
(08 July, 2020 - 04:42 AM)Nalon Wrote: Show MoreErm not sure if I am right, but what I got is that she doesn't want to date anymore. But maybe stay friends, that's why she said "i still luv you" ? She also obvouisly cares about you cus she apologises for making you wake up to those messages and also asks you tyo msg her when u see it.
saying "i understand" probably didnt help though...
that's the thing, we're not dating. it's probably the way we text/talk. yeah, I made a promise to her that when things go south we could always be friends.
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OP 08 July, 2020 - 04:53 AM
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(08 July, 2020 - 04:52 AM)MilicoThings Wrote: Show MoreIm selling a EBOOK about that
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bruh. you're indirectly promoting it xd. gimme for free, ill read it too hehe
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08 July, 2020 - 04:55 AM
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(08 July, 2020 - 04:48 AM)amallxw Wrote: Show More (08 July, 2020 - 04:39 AM)MNQN Wrote: Show MoreJust say you understand, and that you have thinking to do too.
yeah no, i already told her i understand. i just need to know what the texts mean.
(08 July, 2020 - 04:42 AM)Nalon Wrote: Show MoreErm not sure if I am right, but what I got is that she doesn't want to date anymore. But maybe stay friends, that's why she said "i still luv you" ? She also obvouisly cares about you cus she apologises for making you wake up to those messages and also asks you tyo msg her when u see it.
saying "i understand" probably didnt help though...
that's the thing, we're not dating. it's probably the way we text/talk. yeah, I made a promise to her that when things go south we could always be friends. I'm aware your not dating haha, i think shes going back on the deal you made. In my eyes you have a couple options depending on what you wanna do. Do you still like her?
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OP 08 July, 2020 - 04:57 AM
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(08 July, 2020 - 04:55 AM)Nalon Wrote: Show More (08 July, 2020 - 04:48 AM)amallxw Wrote: Show More (08 July, 2020 - 04:39 AM)MNQN Wrote: Show MoreJust say you understand, and that you have thinking to do too.
yeah no, i already told her i understand. i just need to know what the texts mean.
(08 July, 2020 - 04:42 AM)Nalon Wrote: Show MoreErm not sure if I am right, but what I got is that she doesn't want to date anymore. But maybe stay friends, that's why she said "i still luv you" ? She also obvouisly cares about you cus she apologises for making you wake up to those messages and also asks you tyo msg her when u see it.
saying "i understand" probably didnt help though...
that's the thing, we're not dating. it's probably the way we text/talk. yeah, I made a promise to her that when things go south we could always be friends. I'm aware your not dating haha, i think shes going back on the deal you made. In my eyes you have a couple options depending on what you wanna do. Do you still like her? I do, but I plan to move on.
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