#9
Well, it may be hard to do this but... ACCEPT that he is gone. This is the first step to try to feel better, then surround with people that loved him and share the best moments you lived together and with time things will start to improve and the sadness will fade away.

I'm not saying right now because everybody has its own time but accepting and not starting to search for answers to the question "WHY?" for me it's the foundation to deal with these things.

For me RESPECT stands like the ultimate foundation for any relation with any living being as ACCEPTATION is for death.