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Am I a fraud?

by Dabanju1337124 - 16 June, 2023 - 09:41 PM
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I met this new girl, and I already love her so much. However, I recently ended my previous relationship to be with her. Now, I'm unsure whether I should tell her about it. I made a promise to be honest when I entered this new relationship, but I can't help feeling like a fraud. I've been pretending that she was the only girl I was interested in, when in reality, I was swiping right on almost anyone with a pretty face on Tinder. Should I confess my past actions to her?


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Tell her.
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yeah ur a fraud
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the illusion of control is so funny, honesty is a double edged sword people dont need to be uppdated on every single detail you need to know when to hold information from youur significant other as you cant predict the outcome of what you say i wouldnt say if i was you Mesvak
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It's commendable that you want to be honest in your new relationship, as honesty is essential for building trust and a strong connection. However, it's crucial to approach the situation with sensitivity and understanding.
Firstly, take some time to reflect on your feelings and actions. Consider why you were swiping right on multiple people on Tinder while you were still in the previous relationship. Understanding your motivations and learning from past mistakes can help you grow and improve as a person.
When you feel ready, have an open and honest conversation with the new girl you're seeing. You don't have to divulge every detail of your past actions, but it's essential to communicate that you recently ended a previous relationship before starting this new one. Let her know that you value honesty in a relationship and wanted to share this information with her.
Apologize if you feel you've misled her in any way, but also make it clear that your feelings for her are genuine. Explain that you're committed to being honest from this point forward, and you want to build a meaningful and sincere connection with her.
Keep in mind that people have different reactions to such information, and she might need some time to process it. Be prepared for her response and respect whatever decision she makes. Remember, honesty and openness are fundamental in any healthy relationship, and it's better to address these concerns sooner rather than later.
Ultimately, the key is to learn from your past and use it as an opportunity to grow and become a better partner.

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