How do I stop overthinking?

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Hey all! 

Never been great with my thoughts. I've always overthought the smallest situations and recently I've found someone who i consider "the one". That special someone i want to spend my life with and i need some advice. I need to stop overthinking. I've spoken to friends about it and I've always been told the same thing "just don't think about it". I can't. Is there any method to doing so? would be greatly appreciated if someone could help a brother out. Thanks  :feelsgood:


EDIT BOYS****
Went on a date with her and asked her out, she said yes. 2020 has literally been the best year of my life. A Big thanks to all of you that commented. It means a lot to me <3

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You gotta become fucking man, go to that girl and say you love her.

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Nothing changes if you will tell her. Just think about it. There is no reason to be scared about. It helped me a lot in my life.

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Dude, when you find the one, you arent even scared of telling it, i found the one but theres something i'm scared abt "we are cousins" dont laugh mfs i know it sounds fucking stupid but shes a great woman, idk i like her, but im scared she doesnt like me and that would make an akward situation for the family. :sad:
But well, if shes the one you shouldnt be afraid to ask.

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Give it a try. You ain't alone about overthinking this stuff since you really care like everyone else when it comes to love. Give it a shot, hit or miss. It's experience nonetheless.
Be your self and good luck!

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Dude... first of all... we don't know the whole situation... so dont come out and say I LOVE YOU... it may scare her off. 

I agree with others, you should clear the air and just let him/her know you have strong feelings about them and you want to see where it goes. 

If it works out, AWESOME. If not, you won't go through thinking is he/she thinking the same about me? 

There's more to it... you won't know what the true feelings are when you live with them, see how they are around your friends and family, etc. MANY factors to consider before saying he/she is the one if you really think about it. Again, find out if the feelings mutual as far as how they feel and go on from there. 

This one time, I was good friends with this girl online and I thought I would be next in line, she just said she was not ready yet. Met her in real life once too.. guess what? I wasnt the next guy in line. It was someone else. 

Clear the air . Good luck.

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Just go to her and tell about your feelings ! Overthinking will not help !

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