OP 24 April, 2021 - 06:21 PM
Hello everyone. So I am in highschool and I am getting into my first "serious" relationship.
So i started talking to this girl a week or two ago. I started flirting with her this last week alot. Yesterday night after school she asked me if i wanted to chill with her b4 cheer. I of course said yes and her friend looked at me and like gave that sign and like i should do it. so i said yes and we walked down to a back hall way where we just hung out for about 10 mins. thats when her friends went and "changed" her friends left us alone for about 10 mins. we made lots of eye contact and talked alot. Then her friends came back and said we will be right back. Her friends are tryna to get me and her to do something weather its making out or what ever. But we started to flirt with eachother and talking about dirty things, thats when they came back 10 mins later. Then we went up to the gym and i headed out. I forgot to even as for the snap. I will see her monday and I belive she has cheer. Could i ask her for her snap and tell her i have feelings, or tell her i have feelings then ask for the snap? or am i going to fast with this, i wanna go at a comfortable pace with this and i dont wanna mess it up now. but i belive she knows i have feelings for her, but i feel like she has feelings for me to. we flirt with eachother alot and we are honest and very open to eachother and make lots of contact. I just need some adivce. So the question is. Should I tell her I have feelings for her then go for the snap. or go for the snap then tell her I have feelings or what should I do.
So i started talking to this girl a week or two ago. I started flirting with her this last week alot. Yesterday night after school she asked me if i wanted to chill with her b4 cheer. I of course said yes and her friend looked at me and like gave that sign and like i should do it. so i said yes and we walked down to a back hall way where we just hung out for about 10 mins. thats when her friends went and "changed" her friends left us alone for about 10 mins. we made lots of eye contact and talked alot. Then her friends came back and said we will be right back. Her friends are tryna to get me and her to do something weather its making out or what ever. But we started to flirt with eachother and talking about dirty things, thats when they came back 10 mins later. Then we went up to the gym and i headed out. I forgot to even as for the snap. I will see her monday and I belive she has cheer. Could i ask her for her snap and tell her i have feelings, or tell her i have feelings then ask for the snap? or am i going to fast with this, i wanna go at a comfortable pace with this and i dont wanna mess it up now. but i belive she knows i have feelings for her, but i feel like she has feelings for me to. we flirt with eachother alot and we are honest and very open to eachother and make lots of contact. I just need some adivce. So the question is. Should I tell her I have feelings for her then go for the snap. or go for the snap then tell her I have feelings or what should I do.