It might be me but I don't think a single person on here is truly happy with themselves and their lifes. We all come from different backgrounds and we're all trying to deal with our own shit.
Not many people have the balls to come out with their feelings though. Consider themselves weak because of some faggots in SB.
Well I don't care.
I wonder, are you happy, are you living the life you imagined? Glad that you're spending your time on this forum instead of other stuff?
18 July, 2022 - 12:34 AM(This post was last modified: 18 July, 2022 - 12:35 AM by bye. Edited 1 time in total.)
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Happiness is not eternal in this life and it will never be, and that's how life is supposed to be, imagine a life where everyone is happy... pointless, if everyone is happy then why even exist.
For the day to come, you need to go through the night, life is basically the same.
For you to experience happiness, you need to go through sadness.
Life is basically just and exam to what will come after, you don't work for now, you work for what will come later, so just step on what happening in the present and keep going, else, you'll always be stuck at starting point.
And a tiny quick tip to anyone that wants to be happy, is to treat people the way you like them to treat you, but don't do it expecting an outcome, just do it from your own heart.
if you want to be happy, make others happy.
if you want to be sad, make others sad.
and so on.
as for myself, I am happy, but of course I experience difficulties from now and then but I don't let them affect me so ye.
I still have a lot more to say, but I'll just leave it here.
Schopenhauer said: there is no happiness, it can't be achieved; so we must try to eliminate the things that makes us miserable. I am not happy but I am not neither sad yet, I didn't achieve my goals but thats not important because I am putting the work. I do take medication too, consciousness is a mans' curse ans all men are cursed. But I've been depressed and I've been able to get out of it by focusing on myself and my body. I walk everyday, look after some trees, train for half an hour and keep away from junk food. Here is my two cents if it matters, focus on your health then focus on your intellect try to learn new things read a book every week and try to understand yourself emotionally and find the solutions to the matters that make your life hard.
It takes time for us to find our personal position. I've been stuck for a while too. I know how it feels - but we'll get there.
Once you make some money, put it aside and see where the future will bring you. Create a fund that u can fall back onto if necessary. Eliminate stress.
Happiness is not eternal in this life and it will never be, and that's how life is supposed to be, imagine a life where everyone is happy... pointless, if everyone is happy then why even exist.
For the day to come, you need to go through the night, life is basically the same.
For you to experience happiness, you need to go through sadness.
Life is basically just and exam to what will come after, you don't work for now, you work for what will come later, so just step on what happening in the present and keep going, else, you'll always be stuck at starting point.
And a tiny quick tip to anyone that wants to be happy, is to treat people the way you like them to treat you, but don't do it expecting an outcome, just do it from your own heart.
if you want to be happy, make others happy.
if you want to be sad, make others sad.
and so on.
as for myself, I am happy, but of course I experience difficulties from now and then but I don't let them affect me so ye.
I still have a lot more to say, but I'll just leave it here.
Helping others is a valid way of gaining a higher level of personal growth. Getting yourselves out there and putting effort into others can be some of the most rewarding behaviour that exists.
But, it also is a risk. What if you end up losing your own personal space / time? What if you give away when it is smarter to not? Do you still give? Or hold for your own usages?
These are questions everyone has to answer for themselves. There's not 1 answer.
(18 July, 2022 - 12:38 AM)ChickenFinger1 Wrote: Show More
Schopenhauer said: there is no happiness, it can't be achieved; so we must try to eliminate the things that makes us miserable. I am not happy but I am not neither sad yet, I didn't achieve my goals but thats not important because I am putting the work. I do take medication too, consciousness is a mans' curse ans all men are cursed. But I've been depressed and I've been able to get out of it by focusing on myself and my body. I walk everyday, look after some trees, train for half an hour and keep away from junk food. Here is my two cents if it matters, focus on your health then focus on your intellect try to learn new things read a book every week and try to understand yourself emotionally and find the solutions to the matters that make your life hard.
I am happy to hear that you're finding ways to deal with your own situation.
People need to find what gives them their personal sense of happiness. And that just... takes time.
Thanks for your reply.
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