need some help w a girl xd

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I'll give you a tip: If you don't understand something, never say you understand it. It is a small lie to the naked eye but it can be giant. If you don't understand something, ALWAYS ask for details. (And be careful what you say, express that you do not understand or don't know the mean)

Now speaking of the image, I have three reasons in mind: She had a very bad experience and needs to recover from what happened / She does not trust / is afraid because of that bad experience

She has many things to do and it is difficult for her to think well about the relationship, leaving it closed in mind and without being able to decide definitively

She is not interested in being more than friends

That is what I have in mind, but there may be many more reasons. It all depends on the person, brother. Now that you said you understood, I doubt there will be a turning back, but if you feel bold you can say that you didn't really understand well the mean of the messages and need a better explanation.

I wish you luck, I'm sure you guys make a nice couple

This is the best shit ive read.
:')

It's a pleasure. Oh! And before you send her something real fast, think on the consequences. Maybe you should wait some days and ask how she's doing... Don't hurry up.

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you already have your answer with the previous replies.
she's not into you. im sorry man.

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Hey bruv,
Imo the pact most likely makes her feel like you're always gonna be there as an option. Don't mention anything regarding a possible relationship unless she brings it up first.
G luck young fella.

^I am actually with this guy.

It is possible that she just sees you as "an option" instead of "the option". Which is probably why she had you made such a pact with her. Otherwise if she was truly into you, she wouldn't have texted you this after only 2 days of not even dating, but "seeing how it goes". IF this is the case then what I would do is cut it off entirely. For me personally, it is extremely insulting when someone is just leading me on, fully aware that I'm into them but uses that to control my emotions so I can be a backup plan.

There is also another person in this thread that I agree with that said she probably had a bad relationship not too long ago and is just trying to recover. Maybe texting the way she did with you gave her flashbacks and memories she wanted to keep locked away, and she just can't keep it up. In this case I would just give her all the time she needs to recover. Things like that can't be rushed.

Tbh, not knowing the details/the reasoning behind what she told you makes your next course of actions pretty hazy.

In any case, just be very careful of your choice of words and the way you words things man. good luck

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Niggas be asking for romantic help in a cracking forum tf, everyone here is a virgin

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I am a girl and I think there are only 2 reasons to write something like that:
1. Maybe she is starting to feel uncomfortable writing with you like the two of you are dating.. because she is realizing that she is not into you (sorry for that). I think she doesn't want to tell you directly.. She seems to be afraid of hurting you. Perhaps she doesn't want to lose you as friend.
2. She is unsure and has some trust issues..

But to be honest, most of the girls I know would write this and mean option 1..
and I would recommend to stay away, because I don't think that you can be friends with someone you love without getting hurt!

Still wish you the best!

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Yeah...You should move on..

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Females being females, playing with you and shit. Keep your head up king.